This is one time when I wish someone didn't have their FB friends list locked, the only friends of hers I can see are mutuals, JAD folks. Hmm...I don't recognize the names of people commenting on her posts.... Ah, she tagged her son Chad back in October. Does anyone have him as a friend, and can ask him about her? I don't know if he'd see a PM from someone he doesn't have as a friend.
Thanks for the birthday stuffs. It was quiet and uneventful. Another lap complete.
Random thought: Has anyone heard from Judy. It looks like she logged in around Christmas, but, hasn't posted in a long time.
I have called her several times, always get voicemail, leave a message, but she has not returned the calls.
I found her daughter in law's FB page and sent a message several days ago. Just got this reply:
I will let her know... Jason and me are doing are best to Care for her..the cancer is is shrinking and her diabetes is now under control..we monitor her food and drinks..I'm sure she will appreciate y'alls concern for her
'whatever you're doing is probably not important so stop'
Mum had had a series of minor strokes over the last 10 years, then, about 3 years ago there was a serious one that left her with dementia and we had to move her into a nursing home.
They kept her comfortable, but it was simply a matter of time, so when they phoned me on Monday to say that they'd called an ambulance as she had a temperature and shortness of breath with possible sepsis it wasn't unexpected.
My sister and I had already discused this, but we talked again and agreed that there was no point in taking her into hospital and putting antibiotics into her as that would only cause more distress, so we just said to make sure that she wasn't in any pain and to let her go to sleep.
The person who was my mother died 3 years ago, now her body is at peace.
Well this sucks. I got a number for Mary (thanks Glenn) and just reached out to her. Char was just diagnosed with an aggressive form of brain cancer on Jan 9th. Mary noticed something was not right over New Years and took her to the ER. Char has no short term memory at this point, long term is ok. She also feels that Char is a bit disconnected from feelings at this point.
She is in a facility near Sonora near her son. She is not sure if they are going to do surgery, but either way she said the outlook is not good. I've asked her to let Char know that we love her and are thinking of her and to keep me updated if something happens.
I'll reach out again and get an address if anybody would like to send cards or such.
Be true to who to are, you only have one life to live.